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SYNOPSIS ON CHRISTIAN COURTSHIP

Preacher:CSS ADEAGBO ADEWALE SAMSON
TOPIC:SYNOPSIS ON COURTSHIP
BIBLE TEXT:
Marriage is honourable in all,and the bed undefiled:but whoremonger and adulterers,God will judge.- Hebrews 13:4
Flee fornication.every sin a man doeth is without the body;but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body -1Corinthians6:18
But fornication,and all uncleanness, or covetousness,let it not be named among you,as becometh the saints - Ephesians 5:3
(Treat) the elder women as mothers;THE YOUNGER AS SISTER WITH ALL PURITY -1Timothy 5: 2 WORD MINISTRATION: Courtship,especially christian courtship, is supposed to serve as a prelude to marriage. Courtship is a period when a man and a woman study one another with a view to developing a mutual understanding that will eventually lead to marriage. Meeting during this period are best used for spiritual exercises like bible study,joint evangelism,prayer and fasting,attending spiritual programme together,etc. This does not mean you can not engage in other activities. YOU CAN but it must be godly one. By all means, 1)avoid carnality. 2)avoid unduly body contact or unduly closeness 3)avoid hugging,perking,kissing,caressing, etc 4)avoid being together alone in secluded place or close places 5)each partner is to treat each other with all purity Have you not heard: Christian courtship should teach the world what we call purity.know there are boundaries which you must not cross as long as you are still in courtship.there are are road which you must not pass. Go and Learn this:that you are in courtship does not make him or her your husband or wife.hence you have no power yet over his or her body.mind the way you touch each other or have body contact.

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